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Hello…my name is Hope…and I am an ellipsis junkie.

 

The first step is admitting the problem, yes? Now to find a support group for my particular sickness. You see, I just can’t seem to help myself. I know grammar rules, I know which funky-looking bits of punctuation belong where, and yet I am finding myself in constant violation of ellipsis abuse. If I were to read some of my emails and forum postings out loud, it would sound like a horrible tenth-grade drama student auditioning for a Shakespearean play.

 

You know…

Awkward pauses…

Dramatic sighs…

Elongated words…

Sentences that trail off at the end for no apparent reason…

 

Oh lord, I need help!

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A.Hope on October - 3 - 2009
categories: Daily Life

While touring through Romania, I made it my goal to capture a flower in every town we stayed in. Everywhere we turned, the streets are lined with splashes of red and orange, flower boxes serve as medians through lanes of traffic, and every single house has a leafy, canopied garden filled with knots and circles of the most amazingly fragant bulbs of color I’ve ever seen.

Here are just a few to serve as appetizers for the rest of our travels. These are from as far south as Bucharest, through Sinaia, Aref, Poenari, Sighisoara, Brasov, Curtea de Arges and up unto the Carpathian Mountains into Transylvania:

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Pretty, no?? Click on each one for a much closer shot. You may even see a Romanian insect or two ;)

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A.Hope on September - 22 - 2009
categories: Daily Life

…when one is away too long, Smurfs take over the whole darn place…

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Luckily, I am home now and will be updating this smurftastic place with pictures and stories galore. Grab your pointy teeth, capes, cloaks, and favoritest snuggle-bunny, things could get a little scary…

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A.Hope on September - 22 - 2009
categories: Daily Life

I have officially Cheezburgered two of our cats…

 

Go give them a good vote!

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A.Hope on August - 24 - 2009
categories: Daily Life

For the past many days, I have been battling with my peepers once again. You see, my right eye has apparently launched an all-out war against me, and has opted to use germ warfare as its primary tool of aggression. Thanks to this unprovoked attack, I am now the victim of a particularly vicious set of ocular atrocities: iritis and scleritis. In layman’s terms, red-pain-ohmigoshhurtssomuchcan’tstandit-photophobic eye woes.

 

For this reason, I’m having to seriously limit my time in front of anything remotely light-emitting, such as the computer monitor, so I ask that you bear with me while we get my wayward peeper back under control. Two good things out of this whole deal, though: I’ve been put in contact with the best ophthalmologist I’ve ever had in my life (and please remind me to tell you about “optical diarrhea” when I’m back and posting in regular form), and I’ve gained cool points by having David Bowie eyes. One of the treatments my ophth has me on is constant pupil dilation, so, essentially, I look *almost* as cool as this:

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See?

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Or, if you prefer a feline interpretation:

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But, perhaps I have it all wrong, and my eye was not truly attempting to engage in damaging warfare with me. After all…

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At any rate, I’ll be back to more frequent postings as soon as I can tolerate the screen…and really, I have quite a bit to talk about (imagine that), so hopefully this will speed right along…

 

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A.Hope on August - 14 - 2009
categories: Daily Life

There is much excitement in the land of Hope!  As many of you who don’t know, in the early part of September, my husband and I will be embarking on “The Dracula Tour” of Romania. Essentially, we’ll be touring places frequented by Vlad Tepes (a.k.a. Vlad the Impaler, a.k.a. Vlad Dracula), including his ancestral home and actual fortress and castle. We’ll also be visiting Castle Bran, the castle that inspired the American versions of “vampire” castles. Think Bram Stoker’s “Dracula” and you’ll have it.  I am extremely thrilled about the trip, and even more so because I am being afforded the opportunity to document our journey for a fairly well-known geographic travel magazine. So, fingers crossed that all goes well, hm?

 

In preparation for this trip, I am reading “Vlad Dracula: The Dragon Prince” by Michael Augustyn. My husband has read it and re-read it oh, let’s say about two dozen times now, and gives it supremely high ratings. So now it’s my turn to get on the ball and start brushing up on my Vlad knowledge.

 

Speaking of brushing up, I’d best get back to my Romanian lessons. I certainly don’t want to be the “ugly rude American tourist” over there… eesh…

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A.Hope on August - 3 - 2009
categories: Daily Life, Random News

As promised, though dreadfully late, here is the story of my favorite childhood Fourth of July. As a kid growing up in an Air Force family, few things were as important as family, country, freedom, respect, and independence. The Fourth of July was a huge celebration of all those ideals and qualities rolled into one, thus making it a natural favorite for everyone.

 

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The deafening roar of USAF Thunderbirds casting intricate jet trails across a cornflower sky, Lee Greenwood wearing his trademark Stars and Stripes jacket, belting out “God Bless the USA” to a crowd of hundreds, the scent of grilled hamburgers and hotdogs mixed with the pungent aroma of jet fuel and hot concrete, and me riding my dad’s uniformed shoulders while holding my mom’s hand, my beaming seven-year old face cracking at the red-white-and-blue painted corners – this was my most memorable Fourth of July.

 

Each year on Little Rock Air Force Base in Jacksonville, Arkansas, every man, woman and child grabbed their sunscreen, donned the then-fashionable fanny pack, and headed to the massively huge air field to enjoy the greatest of Air Force traditions: the air show. We knew what to expect. Parents would smile indulgently and chat with each other as the children sat in cockpits and explored, awe-struck, the cavernous interior of a C-130 aircraft, affectionately known as “Hercules planes.”

 

Patriotic entertainment was always provided, ranging from local talent to international personalities and you could not walk a step without having USA pennants, streamers, balloons, and toys pressed into your hands.

 

The best parts, however, remained the same each year: flight maneuvers and fireworks. The Navy-based Blue Angels were regular attendees of the LRAFB show, and their death-defying, pulse-accelerating exhibition of precision and flamboyancy never failed to stir intense excitement in even the most stoic of audience members.

 

The real stars of the day, though, were our own Thunderbirds. Planes with red-and-black pointed noses and wasp-like bodies, they appear too small to win a race against your grandfather’s Ford. Yet there they are, ripping sonic booms over your head as they create formation after formation in the sky, sending hearts leaping into throats as they zoom toward each other on a head-on collision course, then snapping a quarter-roll onto their sides and missing certain death by mere feet – these were our boys, our pride and joy. These were the grown-up toys that reminded us why our home was so important.

 

As a critical base of air mobility in the US Air Force, LRAFB was always inundated with troops, vehicles, and thousands of planes. It is the sole C-130 training base for the Department of Defense, and flight personnel from all branches of the US military as well as 28 allied nations arrive constantly to be trained by the best. Even as children, my friends and I all knew the importance of where we lived and revered the constant roar of aircraft overhead. Even in 1987, before the Gulf War, we knew that what our moms and dads did made a huge difference in the lives of everyone in the world. Our pride shone through our faces every time we respected a flag, and the Fourth of July air show teemed with the jubilance and fierce adulation of every single person on the air base.

 

Every year, our toast to the day would end with hour-long fireworks spectacular. Flaming rockets scorched the sky, dazzling flags waved next to the stars; pinwheels of light blinded our young eyes until all we could see were the remaining shapes in the smoke. Not quite visible, just memories in the night’s heavens. July 4, 1987, will forever stand in my mind as my most memorable, most excited, most cherished Independence Day, for its smoke memories still linger in my mind.

 

Originally posted here.

published @ Helium.com

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A.Hope on July - 18 - 2009
categories: Daily Life, Writings

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Happy Fourth of July!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

As the daughter of a veteran, the Fourth is a pretty darn impressive day. When I have time later today, I’ll come back to post the story of my favorite childhood Fourth of July. The story involves jet engines, Lee Greenwood, and throngs of people. Sounds fun, no? Cool

 

See? That’s a hook. heh

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A.Hope on July - 4 - 2009
categories: Daily Life

Growing up in a Southern family is pretty much a guarantee of growing up with odd sayings. Hailing from Alabama, as I do, doubles that guarantee and adds a side of grits. I’ve been a smart-aleck, sass-mouth and too big for my britches, more times than I can count, beginning from the time I was knee high to a fire ant. For you non-Southerners, that all translates to, “I had a smart mouth even as a small child.”

 

You have to admit, the Southern-style is much more entertaining.

 

My grandmother was a fount of quirky sayings (or “Mamaw-isms” as I call them), that she inherited from her parents. If a baby was crying in obvious teething agony, she would coo, “Just cuttin’ through like a hen grindin’ plates, aren’t they?” I eventually learned that this alluded to her childhood chore of tossing broken dishware to the chickens, who would use the shattered ceramic to sharpen their beaks.

 

In times of real anger, an offender would be threatened with having their own heads “shoved where the sun don’t shine,” or to be “knocked back to last Tuesday and smacked again on Wednesday.” Even now, I catch myself growling those gems when particularly frustrated with someone.

 

There is one tradition that typically abounds in all Southern families: gossip. We like to sit outside, preferably on the front porch, and chatter about the goings-on of family members, neighbors and various other people in our lives. Just as some people use the phrase “With all due respect,” as being a Get Out of Jail Free card if used before saying something scathing, my family has their own little catchphrase: “Now, I’d rather step on my own tongue than to say something bad about anyone, but…”

 

And it works. So long as you preface a snarky comment with a declaration that involves trotting over your own tongue, no one will consider anything you say the slightest bit awry. It’s great, you really should give it a try.

 

There are dozens of other -isms that have passed through my family and made it into our common vernacular. Some friends, though Southern themselves, have given me the funniest looks when I’ve declared myself to be feeling “plumb tuckered” at the end of a long day, or when I describe the weather as being “a little nippy.” There are others, however, that they have heard – and used – themselves. For example, a trashy woman typically looks as if “she’s been rode hard and put up wet,” while a tacky man is “one of those tires-on-the-front-yard kinda guys.”

 

So whether we’re on the front-porch swangin’ or iced-tea idlin’, my Southern family can entertain you without even trying. And you can bet your ever-lovin’ tushes on that.

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A.Hope on July - 2 - 2009
categories: Daily Life, Writings

Today marks 3 years that my oh-so-wonderful and tolerant husband has put up with my vagaries, temper, goofiness, dorkiness, moodiness, scatterbrained behavior and ranting vents about the world in general. He has never failed to be all that is supportive, encouraging, tolerant, and loving…while still giving me the return fire that I need from time to time.

 

I consider my world considerably brightened and my life exponentially improved, just for having him in it.

 

I love you very much, sweetie.

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A.Hope on June - 30 - 2009
categories: Daily Life
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